Helikopter Anababalık ve Gençler Üzerindeki Gelişimsel Etkileri

Yıl 2021, Cilt: 4 Sayı: 8, 134 - 150, 06.01.2022

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https://doi.org/10.36731/cg.819709

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Öz

Bu çalışmanın amacı son zamanlarda literatürde giderek daha fazla yer alan helikopter anababalık olgusunu özellikle anababa genç ilişkilerinde de görülmesi çerçevesinde gözden geçirmek ve helikopter anababalığın gençlerin ruh sağlığına etkileri konusunda bir değerlendirmede bulunmaktır. Bu çalışmada helikopter anababalığın kavramsal olarak tanımlanması, helikopter anababalığa katkıda bulunan nedenler, içinde bulunduğumuz tarihsel dönem ve kuşak kavramları değerlendirilerek ele alınmakta ve helikopter anababalığın sonuçlarına ilişkin araştırmalar farklı psikolojik boyutlarda (özerklik, bağlılık, kaygı, öz-yeterlik vb.) paylaşılmaktadır. Literatürde helikopter anababalık davranışlarının çocuklarının gelişimi açısından çoğunlukla olumsuz sonuçlar ortaya koyduğu görülmektedir. Helikopter anababaların çocuklarının akademik, sosyal ve kişisel yaşantılarına ilgileri ve müdahaleleri, çocuklarını yaşamın getirilerine karşı hazırlıksız olmalarına neden olup, farklı olumsuz psikososyal sonuçları da beraberinde getirebilmektedir.

Anahtar Kelimeler

Helikopter Anababalık, Gençler, Gelişimsel Etkiler

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