ÜNİVERSİTE ÖĞRENCİLERİNDE AŞKA İLİŞKİN TUTUMLAR, KİŞİLİK ÖZELLİKLERİ İLE BAĞLANMA STİLLERİ ARASINDAKİ İLİŞKİLERİN İNCELENMESİ

Yıl 2019, , 51 - 62, 30.06.2019

Ferda Şule Kaya , Gizem Karahasanoğlu

https://doi.org/10.26695/mukatcad.2019.27

Öz

Bu .alışma bireylerin; romantik ilişki, kişilik .zellikleri ve bağlanma stilleri arasındaki ilişkiyi incelemektedir. .alışmaya, 119’u kadın, 116’sı erkek toplam 235 üniversite .ğrencisi katılmıştır ve katılımcılara, Kişisel Bilgi Formu, Aşka İlişkin Tutumlar .l.eği (LAS), Beş Fakt.r Kişilik Envanteri (NEO-PI-R) ve Yakın İlişkilerde Yaşantılar Envanteri (YİYE) uygulanmıştır. Araştırma verileri kadın-erkek ve ilişkisi olanlar-ilişkisi olmayanlar üzerinden değerlendirilmiştir. .alışma verileri i.in t test ve korelasyon analizleri yapılmıştır. Elde edilen bulgular; tutkulu aşkın duygusal dengesizlik ve kayıtsız bağlanma ile arasında negatif ilişki bulunurken; sahiplenici aşk ile duygusal dengesizlik ve saplantılı bağlanma arasında pozitif bir ilişki bulunmuştur. Uyumlu kişilik ile oyun gibi aşk ile arasında negatif bir ilişki g.rülürken; mantıklı aşk ve arkadaş.a aşk arasında pozitif bir ilişki bulunmuştur. Ancak arkadaş.a aşkın duygusal dengesizlik ve kayıtsız bağlanma ile arasındaki ilişki negatiftir. Mantıklı aşkın sorumluluk alt boyutuyla arasındaki ilişki pozitif olurken, duygusal dengesizlik ile arasındaki ilişki negatiftir. .zgeci aşkın hi.bir kişilik ve bağlanma boyutlarıyla anlamlı bir ilişkisi bulunmamıştır. Kadın katılımcılar duygusal dengesizlik ve kayıtsız bağlanma da, erkek katılımcılar ise oyun gibi aşk ve .zgeci aşkta yüksek puan almıştır. İlişkisi olan katılımcılar tutkulu aşk, arkadaş.a aşk ve .zgeci aşk boyutlarında anlamlı .l.üde yüksek puanlar almıştır.

Anahtar Kelimeler

romantik ilişki türleri, kişilik özellikleri, bağlanma türler, toplumsal cinsiyet, aşka ilişkin tutumlar

THE EXAMINATION OF THE RELATIONSHIP OF UNIVERSITY STUDENTS BETWEEN ATTITUDES TOWARDS LOVE, PERSONALITY TRAITS, ATTACHMENT STYLES

Öz

Thisstudywastoexamineloveattitudes,personalitytraitsandadultattachmentstylesofpeople.Inordertofulfillthispurposeattendto tal235collegestudents(119femaleand116themmale).InordertocollectdatafromparticipantsPersonalInformationForm,LoveAtti-tudeScale(LAS),BigFivePersonalityInventory(NEO PI R)andExperiencesinCloseRelationshipsScaleII(ESC II)wereused.Thestudy,ttestandcorrelationanalysesweredone.Accordingthecorrelationanalyses,EROSisnegativelycorrelatedwithneuroticismandavoidantattachment,whereasMANIAispositivelycorrelatedwithneuroticismandpreoccupiedattachmentdimensions.PersonalitytraitofagreeablenessisnegativelycorrelatedtoLUDUS,itispositivelycorrelatedtoPRAGMAandSTORGE.However,STORGEhasanega-tivecorrelationwithneuroticismandavoidantattachment.ThecorrelationbetweenPRAGMAandconscientiousnessispositive,whilethecorrelationbetweenPRAGMAandneuroticismisnegative.AGAPEhasnosignificantcorrelationalrelationshipwithanypersonaltraitsorattachmentstyles.Womenhadhigherscoresthanmeninneuroticismandavoidantattachmentsubdimensions.MenhadhigherscoresthanwomeninLUDUSandAGAPE.Theparticipantsareinarelationshiphadsignificantlyhigherscoresthant eotherswhoarenotinarela-tionshipatLUDUS,STORGEandAGAPE.

Anahtar Kelimeler

Love attitudes, personality traits, attachment styles, gender, lovw attidues

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